CAUTION!! PREGNANT LADY RAMBLING BELOW. FILLED WITH MOOD SWINGS AND IRRITABILITY. I CAN'T BE HELD LIABLE FOR MY WORDS AT 4 AM WHEN I AM IN THIS TYPE OF A MOOD......................
I have a thought concerning 2nd wives.............
Get your own husband and stay away from the married ones. You cause nothing but problems and heartache. You go about your "courting" / "marriage" without a thought of how your actions effect the family you are injecting yourself into.
My thoughts on Married men searching for and marrying 2nd wives...........
Learn a little self control. Learn empathy and compassion. Just because it is your "right" doesn't mean it is a "right" without consequences. Your actions hurt your family. Your need to have another bed partner will in no doubt hurt your current relationship. Walk in your 1st wives shoes and ask your self if it is really worth the hurt and pain you cause her. Ask your self if you would sacrifice what she is sacrificing just so the other one can be intimate, build a life and love another person.
My thoughts on 1st wives in this situation.............................
Hmmm, still trying to figure that one out. As of now, I pretty much hate everyone and everything. Doubt is a never ending feeling and thought that consumes my days and nights. Doubting my choices, my life, my religion.
All because Islam gives men the right to sleep with, procreate with, and love more than one wife. Meanwhile, I sit here wondering if it is all worth it in the end.
I love my husband with all of my heart. This is what makes this so difficult. If he was an asshole who didn't love me or take care of me, then I would say Khalas! Go already. This isn't the case. I love him, just not the "right" that he has.
***BIG SIGH***
PS. No comments from the peanut gallery or the self proclaimed "professional bloggers/haters" out there. I am just needing to vent.
PSS.... This heartburn is killing me! 7 months pregnant and let me tell you, it's not all fun and games. haha. Can't wait to hold him and have the heartburn, swelling, waddling, and mood swings disappear. And not to mention the daily injections of heparin I have to take until birth. I love my baby and thank God every day that he finally blessed me after so many years of wanting a child, but boy oh boy, is he making me work for this! :-)
I have a thought concerning 2nd wives.............
Get your own husband and stay away from the married ones. You cause nothing but problems and heartache. You go about your "courting" / "marriage" without a thought of how your actions effect the family you are injecting yourself into.
My thoughts on Married men searching for and marrying 2nd wives...........
Learn a little self control. Learn empathy and compassion. Just because it is your "right" doesn't mean it is a "right" without consequences. Your actions hurt your family. Your need to have another bed partner will in no doubt hurt your current relationship. Walk in your 1st wives shoes and ask your self if it is really worth the hurt and pain you cause her. Ask your self if you would sacrifice what she is sacrificing just so the other one can be intimate, build a life and love another person.
My thoughts on 1st wives in this situation.............................
Hmmm, still trying to figure that one out. As of now, I pretty much hate everyone and everything. Doubt is a never ending feeling and thought that consumes my days and nights. Doubting my choices, my life, my religion.
All because Islam gives men the right to sleep with, procreate with, and love more than one wife. Meanwhile, I sit here wondering if it is all worth it in the end.
I love my husband with all of my heart. This is what makes this so difficult. If he was an asshole who didn't love me or take care of me, then I would say Khalas! Go already. This isn't the case. I love him, just not the "right" that he has.
***BIG SIGH***
PS. No comments from the peanut gallery or the self proclaimed "professional bloggers/haters" out there. I am just needing to vent.
PSS.... This heartburn is killing me! 7 months pregnant and let me tell you, it's not all fun and games. haha. Can't wait to hold him and have the heartburn, swelling, waddling, and mood swings disappear. And not to mention the daily injections of heparin I have to take until birth. I love my baby and thank God every day that he finally blessed me after so many years of wanting a child, but boy oh boy, is he making me work for this! :-)