Thursday, February 23, 2012

Hello Hello...

Salaam everyone...

So sorry it has been so long.  Being a new Mom, and working Mom at that, is a lot more work than I had anticipated.  Looking at the photo for my last blog sent a shiver down my spine..haha  Alhamdulillah, things are sooo much better now.  We are in a routine, he sleeps, he smiles and is a pure joy.  Mashallah..  I don't want to give him to the neighbors anymore..haha

I went back to work when he was 2 months old.  It was a hard transition at first but we made it. I have an amazing Nanny who is just wonderful with him.  Not sure where I would be without her..

I am now officially the only wife and it will remain that way for a long time to come, inshallah.  It didn't work out with no 2 and Dear Hubby isn't interested in looking anymore, although we all know that could change at any time.  I have decided, for my own sanity, that I will not be a part of any more first wife second wife drama because I will pull my self out of that situation if it ever shows up again.  Not worth it to me.  I would rather be alone than miserable.  I have my Son to think of now.  I can't be a good Mommy if I am in that mess again.  Nooo thank you..

Well, thats the update.  I hope you are all doing well, inshallah...


  1. Salam,
    Welcome back :) I'm so glad you and the baby are doing well MashaAllah! Congratulations on having your family back together again Alhamdulilah!
    My you keep on receiving blessings and rewards from Allah! You deserve them!

  2. salaam Liza...

    Thank you thank you.. :) Alhamdulillah, life is good.

  3. Wa alaykum as salaam wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatuh!

    I'm sooooo happy to hear from you, to know that you and your little darling are settled, and that the test of polygyny is over. Verily, Allah is with the patient!

    It was clear from the beginning, the early statements and situation, that this was going to be a test and that many lessons were going to be learned the hard way by your husband. Allah always shows us how perfect His plan is...and the lessons we learn make us all see what our priorities should be. Al hamdu l'Illah!

    Know that with this test over, others will come. However, inshaa'Allah, they will seem easier after this...and you will consider them as temporary blips on the screen when you reflect on how this situation resolved itself.
    May Allah bless your little family richly and grant you all the ultimate success - ameen!

  4. Glad to hear things are happier for you! All the best! :)

  5. I'm so happy to read this update! Both about the baby and your polygamous situation being over (and your decision to not engage in that again - you do deserve better).
    Masha'Allah, again I'm very happy for you and your little family.

  6. Salam,

    Hope you and little family are doing great!!


  7. Salam, you don't post anymore! How are things with the baby :)


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