I just got an awful message from my soon to be co-wife. She called me a spoiled $@*^&! Can you believe it? For all I have done and sacrifised to make it easier for her to marry MY HUSBAND! She acused me of saying something and all hell broke loose. I have helped her with Islam as she is a new convert. I have spoken to her and been nothing but kind. I have looked the other way when I have seen or heard things that should not have been done or said. I have given so much for this only to have it blow up in my face.
I have cried many nights about this. Praying to Allah to give me guidance and patience and love in my heart for her. Now this? SupanAllah! Thank you for the sign!
I told my husband that if he now wants a life with her, he can have it. I no longer will be a part of their "life". My heart cant take too much more. I am dying inside and I dont know where to turn.
Forget acceptance and I can do my own dishes!!
Remember, this is not a court, no need to judge.