Saturday, October 23, 2010
How honest should one be at first?
Salaam to everyone out there...
Real quick question. My husband tells me tonight that he is going to stop telling these women he is married already. He is going to wait and get to know them a little bit before he tells them. He is afraid he is scaring them off. Hmmm... Ok... I am back to wanting to slap someone again. Is this ok? I seriously thinks he needs to speak with a Shaikh or someone with some knowledge about this. I think he is too "rushed" and not willing to wait for what ALLAH (swt) has in store for him.
What do you guys think? Should he be upfront with them or wait after a few conversations to tell them?